How do you get married in Harvest Moon: Tree of Tranquility?

Harvest moon goes 10 days a month and there are 4 months, if you just started the game and you want to get married to Kathy what you do is give her gifts and talk to her often, you'll know she likes you when it does a freeze frame thingy by the end of the year someone will come knocking on your door asking you if you want to marry them.. if you talked to Kathy and gave her gifts it will most likely be Kathy, so you have to wait until the end of the year. And if it is the end of the year and it's NOT kathy then u say no, you'll have to restart and go back to the town and leave Harvest Moon.