What do i do when i have two guys that love me and I am not sure which one i love?

Okay so I have been dating this guy that my family hates for almost 3 months now and I am completely in love with him.... so i thought. But today i saw this guy that my family loves and it seemed like all the old sparks that we had together rekindled... Idk who to choose!??!? My sister said dump him but the thing is that this new guy lives half across the country from me and we wouldn't date anyways... WHAT DO I DO!??!??